What I Did On My Summer Vacation

What I did (and did NOT do, since updating my blog certainly falls into that second category!) over my summer vacation:

**I did not reflect constantly on my life, obsess over the way things could all fall apart dramatically at any moment, worry, or otherwise occupy myself with negativity. Instead, I chose to live for the moment, make spontaneous decisions (like buying a pair of Calvin Klein jean shorts...full price...not on any sale...and with relatively minor guilt after talking myself into doing so) and just concentrate on day-to-day happiness. This is easier than one might think, once a pattern is begun.

**I spent two glorious, forever-treasured months in the cast of "Oklahoma!" at The Parkway Playhouse and, honestly, it changed my life. Something opened up in my brain and screamed out, "HEY!! Remember how you used to linger in this creative outlet all the time? Wake up and get back to it!!" If I could become a permanent, lifetime member of this cast, I totally would. I might be one of only several other members (and you know who you are) but I wish I could relive it. I also spent enough energy relishing every moment of it that I don't feel regret or sadness when I dwell on those memories. I only feel joy.

**I took minor setbacks in stride and learned it doesn't make a bit of difference in the long run anyway. It does, however, help in the moment to make my life easier and more enjoyable.

**I cheered loud and clear for the Pittsburgh Penguins' Stanley Cup win and found great joy in being a member, albeit however far-removed, of the City of Champions.

**I turned 35 years old and realized I need to get my life on track. Instead of lamenting over this decision, I also formulated a plan and, so far, have kept the plan on track. (I also got a Wii for my birthday and will attempt to balance my future plans with playing Madden. Goals abound, you see!)

**I became a bit addicted to Guitar Hero while at my sister's house and have (so far) resisted buying one of my own so as not to derail the aforementioned plans for my future.

**I made some good friends in my new town who reminded me there are places I do indeed fit in and make a contribution.

**I took holidays, relaxed, laughed, and soaked up every ounce of exuberant joy I possibly could.

Of course, there are always constants, which are necessary. One thing I have yet to figure out: Brett Favre. As I've always claimed, I will be dead and he'll still be playing quarterback in the NFL.

Maybe, to spin that into a positive, I should be thankful - it looks like I have one more year left in me!!